I am not your option!

Single life is hard!

Especially since I am a single mom. I mean I respect my son and myself well enough that I don't bring him into anything. I mean it would have to be really serious for that to happen. I have dated, as in going out to a place to get to know each other, quite a few guys. Even when I think I have changed something about my selection process that will result in 

better standings...I am slammed in the face with a Haha.

A few weeks ago I decided to cleanse my phone and text messages by deleting people, guys, that I don't speak to much or at all anymore. So needless to say, if you have sent a text to me recently and I didn't reply'with "Who's this" then you're lucky. Don't take that for granted because it may not last!

Why should I continue to invest so much when it is not being reciprocated by the other person? I don't want your excuses about how you are too busy with this or that. I mean honestly...it takes less than 10 seconds to send a text saying "hi, how you been?" or "hey, thinking about you. Hope all is well." Let's not even start on those that obviously just want a booty call. Don't bother wasting your time...and when I say I am not interested, don't view that as a challenge to try and change my decision.

Now that I am slightly stepping off the soapbox...there is an unspoken acceptance of age difference. Normally it is ok for a man to date a younger woman. Woman do not typically date younger men. OK, that statement was completely stereotypical. Let's change that up a bit. I have normally only dated older men...something to do with maturity. I have yet to find someone younger in age that is able to hold his own, and no I do not mean THAT....sicko! LOL. I am such a sarcastic person as it is...it takes quite a character to be able to handle this. I have recently found that there is an increasing fascination developing, in the younger generation, for me. I think since I have turned 30...I am consistently being hit on by 20 and 21 year olds : / That or people who are old enough to be my dad.

I even got a drunk/lovesick text and call in the middle of the night this past weekend. Someone who claims he wants to be there but doesn't put forth any effort. "I have just been busy with work." Ummm, yea....I don't even want to hear it. 

Fix your life!

On that note - don't treat me like an option. I am only going to stick around for so long because it is not fair to me. I will put forth effort until I realize it is not being reciprocated back and then I will move on. If you are reading this thinking that it is possibly you...it just might be. In the end, your loss unless you do something about it. Muah!